She likes me but dates other guys. She used me to pass the time.

She likes me but dates other guys Right now we’ve reached the point in our relationship that she says is normally the time she ends things with guys, but she doesn’t want to do that because she says she loves me more than any other guy she’s dated. She seems to be REALLY interested in him. If she doesn’t like you enough to tell you she likes you, she doesn’t like you enough. I know your comment is old but I’m in this situation at the moment and what you said resonated with me. Since he’s been back we’ve been out 3 times with a 4th date planned this weekend. Can you girls/guys help me please, I really like this girl a lot. she LIKES you, and I think she's waiting for you to make the next move. If she still wants to talk to every guy she swiped right on, then she TL;DR: I like a girl. She looks at me like she is in heaven. She keeps texting you because you are a backup in case the other guys she is talking to don't end up working out. Easy come easy go. In terms of liking, she likes me more than him but she says her heart is pulled towards him. I really like her, and from what I can gather - she likes me as well. Women tend to be more interested when they’re towards the end of a relationship or are aware that it won’t last and will end soon; as a result, they kind of make themselves available for the next man she dates (women like to make a lot of mistakes – you know, it makes them stronger and wiser, and who they are today – and Does she like me? Discover 15 subtle but telling signs she's into you, but when combined with other signs—like lingering eye contact or thoughtful actions—it's likely that she's doing more than just being playful. Xper 4 Age: 32 She just sounds like she's really scared of getting hurt again, I know what it's like to get hurt and try to make my way back to being comfortable with letting someone in again, I have told guys this before that I just want to hang out because I just want to be around you without any expectations of what is going to happen, I don't want it to go fast, I don't want to expect anything because Then she started telling me about some other shows going on in the same day. She said it will only be dates, no kissing no sex or anything like that. He was asking me for advice on how to respond. But for me that’s too short of a window. If she wears a dress that's great but if she's more comfortable in Jean's for that day that's cool. Eventually told me she really likes me but she wants to date others since we aren't exclusive and get a feel for what else is out there. But maybe she doesn’t want to date anyone right now. She told me she liked me in person and But I get the feeling that she does like me more than that 1) Because of the sublte jealous traits and 2) Because when I initially told her how I felt she said she didn't know how she felt about me entirely. And I still didn't get it. hes something else and they been dating for 5 years they been fighting and she said this mf wants to get married? lol but anyways she said she needs to hide her feelings for me idk it has fucked with She is apprehensive about dating after her ex cheated which is understandable, but we have just way too many freaky coincidences in life and somewhere, both of us know we would be perfect for each other. Part of me whispered that if she wasn’t chasing If during the conversation she admits to hitting on other guys and acts like it’s no big deal, you need to break up fast. There is no ulterior motive, they don’t want to hook up or start a relationship, and they just love talking. She said that she's doing a school project and will let me know if she can come. There is a chance that she’s hurting, and isn’t sure what she wants. When I've been in this position I assumed that she is probably juggling a few other dates/matches and she's just moderately interested in me. " Part of me thinks she likes me but I don't know. Girls are very tricky. Obviously I’m not the handsomest man in the world but why would you flat out be like “yea he’s hotter than you” even if that’s your opinion at least have the decency to just say “yea he’s attractive” lol that’s like purposely trying to hurt feelings But she litterally pulled it out of me. What is going on? Even she avoided sitting next to me but sat directly behind me. So the next day I asked her out. She's apparently trying to pick between me and another guy. So either you be her friend and get to know her for a relationship, which is the smart thing for her, or go date other women and leave her alone. Seek out other girls, talk to other girls, go on dates. She loves me a ton and basically wants to marry me, but the idea of feeling trapped freaks her out. Master Age: 38, mho 45% I'd immediately worry that 50% of the time on a date, the girl would be taking mental notes on how I'm doing X versus how the other guy does X. She pretends like she doesn’t see you. If I find myself questioning if she likes me, she usually does. I guess the hard thing is knowing that she likes me (why else would she be jealous when I start dating someone else) but won't commit and is looking to find someone better than me. Second date she slept over and we had sex. She pushed me away over and over, and I’d react by getting upset and trying to express my feelings. Here are 5 possible reasons why she likes you, but doesn’t want a relationship 1. I brought it up today, she said we’re exclusive and that she wants something long term it’s just to early. Someone who is joking that she’d date you if she was single is likely not joking at all. But you can’t get her to feel the same way. If and IF she likes me more than a friend, I thought it was ok to go on dates with different guys as long as I wasn’t committing or having sex with them. Her Facebook says she's in a relationship but she very, very rarely used it (like a few times every couple years). I didn't take it to the next level, even after the hints she gave me while we went on a walk in the So this causes other guys to be fake and sell bullshit, which causes more guys to be fake and sell bullshit and it keeps going on and on. She's a really nice person. 4. It sounds like you’re in the same sort of situation. source I am in the group of guys who find defined features more attractive. So no matter how much she liked you, she can't use it as an excuse to date her current partner. My bff has always thought the girls I dated "look weird". She added me on facebook. But then she said something about them having cool accents. If I'm not currently seeing other guys and I decide I want to after date 3, it probably means I'm not that into you. Does she act more reserved or less engaged when other men are around, but seem more animated and open with you? That's a clue. Your time is precious. You’re obsessed with her. I would just say make sure to understand that plenty of people who date around like this can certainly find themselves stringing people along, Some other lad thats more level headed can have her as i think i’ll ease off the pedals for now. The reason that she might tell you about other guys if she is attracted to you is that she might be doing it to make you feel like you need to make a move My advice is to keep trying unless she will show clear sign that she is not interested. This part is speculation. She might be just shy and anxious like me, she can be really busy, or maybe she doesn't see a reason to initiate because she knows you will. As guys, we overthink a lot. Personally, if a girl kept asking me out it would make me think that she must really like me if she can't wait to hang out, and that would make me really happy. But she knows I'm This girl I go to school with flirts with me all the time out of school when we hang out. If he really likes you he could be worried about messing up his chances. I'd rather she just let me know she's got a few options and wants to commit her full attention to giving one a shot. But the guy she used to like confessed to her that he likes her too and now she is not able to choose between It's a long distance thing and we haven't met yet. MCheetah Follow. So, again, DITCH HER Reply reply Reasonable-Mix3125 TL;DR: I like a girl. But after date 3, that same fire that I gave her from date 1 and 2 wasn't there anymore. Then she said "that's enough for now" and said goodnight and left. 8 year relationship too btw Like me she's just too nervous to go on dates outside - Dating Question. Reply goin thru the aame she said she wants to kiss me and shit and i heard frim a friend is she leaves him he will commit suicide how fuckin abusive wow and he looks tbru her phone. How do you know if a girl actually likes you because she is interested in you or because she sees I'm in my early 20s and my mom gave me the same advice! You guys are both unless both people are socially awkward then they may both like each other but never find out as each of them thinks it’s impossible and neither can read a We've been on a 2 dates, and met up a 3rd time with some friends. 6. Couple days ago I was feeling down and she cheered me up and I said "at least I still have you". With the fact that she's dating 2 other guys, I wouldn't break things off completely, Ghosted by a girl who said she likes me (M,24) or the situation just got too intense for her and couldn’t take it on while also dealing with all the other stuff she has going on. I offered to postpone our first date but she insisted on meeting me as long as we could spend time together and take things slow. And I agree with all of your points. Some girls just don't let themselves fall for a guy. Yes I understand it's not like she's going to do anything with them when we're together but like I said, it makes me wonder what she is like when I'm not there. but no guys ever ask me out or want to date me. I feel like if I opened that door, she would walk through it. Honestly the prospects of being picked over other guys is intriguing. If it was the latter, Guys taking photos of me on first dates She may not directly say she likes you, but maybe she finds ways to spend time with you, even if it's as simple as lingering a little longer when you're having a conversation. I see her most of the times at parties where she's with other people but spends hours hanging out with me instead. Granted, I don't think I would ever ask for a back massage. They want to have your whole attention but probably have at least 2 other women they are talking to. Sure enough found him on the same dating app. Aquí nos gustaría mostrarte una descripción, pero el sitio web que estás mirando no lo permite. She's asked me on a few occasions, sometimes for advice but other times it seems like she's asking for my permission to wear something. But I've noticed she doesn't have conversation with me unless I'm alone. She told me I should come visit after the second date and mentioned how we really clicked and had great things in common. In the back of your head all you’ll be thinking is “she doesn’t want me like how I want her”. It makes sense considering that her attraction towards me was off the charts after date 1 and 2. Notice how she reacts to other guys. 1. I used to adore replaying every slightly dubious interaction with dates in my head over and over again until I was certain they didn’t like me. Reasons why she likes you but keeps pushing you away. Yeah, I am not that sure of where I stand with her, one day she ignores me. I really like her a lot and we always have the when she's around me we don't act like we are friends, we act like we're pretty much a couple, and also she dosen't talk to any other guys besides me. work, study, maintaining friendships, staying in touch with family, exercising, relaxing, etc) and don’t always have time for a full time, committed relationship. There’s nothing wrong in telling them you want casual dating honey, youve been on 9 dates! NO GIRL would stick around for those many dates if she didn't like you, nor would she let you kiss her AND text you the same night and tell you how great the kiss was. One possibility is that she’s just being friendly and She’d rather talk to him than you. Now I’m with a girl (20) , I know that’s young. Are my friends lying to me? In my mind she’s pretty means yes I’d mail her. but she is absolutely amazing and she shows me she’s into me. I disagree, I mean at first it might be weird because of taking that step forward. My friends say that I'm pretty, funny, nice etc. If she doesn't, her body language, and engagment will let me know. No way she actually trusts him. During the first date she said she was NOT looking for a To me that’s better than any gift or date His current gf used to watch him go out with his other co worker after she told him she liked him. And when he text me within minutes to say “you’re amazing”, I assumed we were on the She has openly admitted that I’m the perfect guy and she dates guys that are like me in almost every way. In truth, she’s letting you know that she likes you but has a partner already. No hot and cold. She does seem like a guy collecter but the reason I thought she liked me in the first place is she was so different with me than them. She has other options and you aren't on the top of that priority list. She’s just testing the waters to see how you react. Too much burn out, I just can't keep dating guys like this. Honestly if it’s less than 2 weeks I’m being totally honest in that if she’s anything like me all Hope is not lost. Girls like their ego to be stroked. And that her definition of date only meant to hang out. It's sounds like she doesn't see you as first pick or a priority. Try a virtual date. She's super smart, very funny, absolutely beautiful, and just an all-around fun spirit. Anyway, coming from the guy's perspective, I wish this girl would make the move for our first kiss. Some women are just plain friendly. It could be that the signs you were reading about her actions are just how she naturally acts around her friends. This means that she doesn’t want to be your girl so she can keep her options open and date other guys. I guess I also tend to respond well to more direct people. I've dated girls who have talked about their exes , its ok. After a month of talking again, she told me “I need a break to think about this. She kept texting me out of the blue, invited me over to her house late at night, went out for lunch, and I thought the connection was there. But the guy she used to like confessed to her that he likes her too and now she is not able to choose between both of us. Is She Looking Why Do Guys Like Me? Revealing Your Hidden Allure By Natalie Garcia, in Attraction 7. We took a walk for like an hour tonight and she told me again that she had fun. What's stopping me from making the move? Her signals. A couple months after, one of her friends told me she was talking to someone else the whole time but On the other hand, if she talks about other guys in a friendly and respectful way, it may be a sign that she values honesty and openness in relationships. It only takes us 1-2 dates to know. If she dates other guys, then she thinks of you as a friend and was trying not to hurt your feelings by rejecting you because you are obviously a good person and friend. Only positive is she added me after she added him. It’s like once you have date 1, within 1-3 dates you’re supposed to know if you like the person enough to start getting intimate with them. First of all, some people are just flirtatious, and it If she regularly likes or comments on other guys’ posts and never mentions yours, it could be a sign that she is still talking to other guys, because she doesn’t care about showing the world that you are together (which is a red When you sense a shift in trust, it can be unsettling, especially if you’re worried about signs that your girlfriend might fancy another guy. 3) She doesn’t initiate dates but she rarely turns them down either. It's irrelevant what I am to other guys she may have been sleeping with before, I'm not privy to that information. g. But if you feel she genuinely likes you and she’s asking you to go slow, then just ask her what she means by that. She wants you to chase her. if you like her enough and she's worth it,u should just ask her out and make it official. We'll also talk about how to cope, move forward, and protect your emotional well-being. And trust me, that's what will make you stand out in the long run. It made me feel like she still has a thing for black guys. who she doesn't lose friends with, because he will become jealous and on top of that other guys like her and it's hard cause she doesn't want to hurt them. I didn't know what to do so when i finished with the game i stood up and covered her with a blanket so she can sleep there and i would go and sleep on the other bed. She has commitment issues . So we hang once again two days later and we both tell each other that we had a ton of fun afterwards just like we had done the other two nights. " I really look for cues and signs. My friend told me at a party she liked me and was waiting for me to aproach her. She told me it was just to make her relatives mad or something. So many dudes after the initial phase where my hopes went up, just either I wasn't interested in or straight up was a text-only situation with like one date/hang-out and then didn't make other plans -_- The moment you sense a woman likes you (and you like her too), approach her, chat with her, get her number, and set up the one-on-one date—in as little time as you can manage. That there was something wrong with me. If she doesn’t want to kiss you on 2’nd date she doesn’t feel any sexual chemistry with you/has some trauma/issues regarding touch. As other folks commented, some girls do say yes to a date, even if she doesn't like you, just to be nice. At other One thing that’s for sure is that when a girl truly likes you, she will not be very interested in seeing other guys while she is dating you. Female here so I can say this. Her entire friends list is people from the midwest, me, and one other guy our age single from the same town. For 2 days I thought about it like you are now. This also means she won’t be flirting while with you. In that case, I'd feel like the fallback choice if things don't work out between her and someone else. She might be already dating someone. Texting is a big ego boost for girls. He Lied or Misled You When someone says, “He told me he likes me,” you naturally believe it. She’s always available on Fridays. He sounds like me! Here is what would likely go through my head "I think she likes hanging out with me, but doesn't seem to like me. I said I’ll catch you later after that and went on my way. I have gone on dates, and I think it goes well, until I find out that the guys just want to hook up and that's it. You're overthinking it. She showed me "signs" and everybody thought she liked me but she chose to push me away. Within 2-3 dates tops, you should know if you want a I do really well for myself. She needs them to drive. She keeps a close watch on you because she wants to see if her being around other guys does something to you. She has told me that she has fun with me, thinks I'm cute and likes me, but for some reason she is always a bit flaky when it comes to hanging out. She’s Hispanic if that matters. At first, it bothered me, because I felt this was basically indifference on her part. Yup - that has been my experience in most of dating, and for a really long time I've hated multi-dating (and I see a lots of people on this sub do too) but it's a necessary part of healthy, normal dating, especially for someone like me who tends to get attached. We had feelings for each other before her current boyfriend (I wasn’t ready for a relationship at the time), and through the years off and on I One date in one month, she probably cannot gauge what you want to be honest. If I meet one decent dude, I would hope it to just get better. But don’t belittle me to my face like that. I don’t know if she’s like this with others but she flirts with me HEAVY, but continues to talk about her fwb, the guys she likes, the guys who like her etc. Another reason a girl might reject you even if she likes you is because of commitment LOL. Texting is a good time filler. Girls like to be entertained every second. multiple other guys pursuing her. It’s only wrong if you have zero feelings for them and you are leading them on. Seems like she’s looking for someone better to come along but probably likes you enough to still want to hang out when she doesn’t have other plans. She said just let’s just take it day by day. Someone said I should give her an ultimatum, but I don't want to loose our Some guys rate them ugly, while other guys rate them as hotter than conventionally attractive women. Sadly I was too drunk to aproach her then. Now the reason why I am writing. She sometimes acts flirty around me but then backs down when I return the flirting. These days, most people lead fairly busy lives (e. She’s just come out of a bad relationship. Last year I met this guy. She Jokes That She’d Date You if She Was Single. We knew each other from school, so already had history. If she didn't like you at least as a friend she wouldn't be talking to you lol. ” To my surprise, 1 month later she tells me she didn’t want to date me anymore. end is she really worth it? And if so, just ask her out on a date already! 0 . How To Handle The Situation. It Thanks for the insight. He could be worried about planning a bad date. Now I see that she’s letting me take the lead. She obviously like the attention of having multiple guys to date, so you shouldn't 'wait around for her'. But, really, do not wait up for her. And I decided that there is no way a woman would kiss a guy she didn't like at least a bit. But if she is unsure about things and is not giving you a clear answer, then maybe she is not the right person for you. Is it wrong to date someone if you like someone else? It’s not wrong to date someone if you like someone else. This includes overthinking signs. kane2121 Follow. This girl is really incredible. She just wouldn’t date me because we are too close. 8. She never states she wants something more though. It’s just not something a girl can do right now, so she has to reject you. I guess it is a fetish. She has sat next to me before which was fine. She is really immature, a bit odd and loves attention, so idk if she is just playing games for attention. To avoid getting busted, she tries her best to not get caught up watching you. I don't really care what she wears but I don't want to seem like I don't care for the wrong reasons. She also told me to bring people. Mainly because i'd been friendzoned so many times, i thought this is what this was, it wasn't until i I would argue that unless a girl is directly talking about some other guy that she likes, then I'd just ask her on a date. At the end of the date I kissed her. She's in my English class in high school and we have hung out and been on dates together a lot. For example, she gets angry that you don’t give her enough attention. However, if this girl is checking out other guys while you are taking her out on a date, or blatantly flirting with the waiter, then that’s a big sign that she is not sure of you. Possibly because of the other shows. So, she's talking about other guys. She than told me she now can't sleep because i moved her and i jokingly said if she wants me to lay there again with her. Its not a test , she just feels comfortable talking about other guys with you and that's a good thing. Which tells me she cant be open and people that aren’t open are risky Love Letters If she has feelings for me, why does she keep dating other guys? After being her rebound guy multiple times, he wonders if she’ll ever take him seriously. I don't want to mess up a good friendship. but I still have no idea. She dropped me. I think if you guys have hung out multiple times and she explicitly told you she wants to still see other people she’s probably just not that into you unfortunately. If she really likes you, she is going to come to you with her mind made up. Before you assume a girl’s attitude towards you means she likes you, observe how she behaves around other people. All the signs were there. Guys are taking her on dates whilst your texting her about TV shows. she probably thinks, "I have no proof they are into me" so she'll probably assume they want friendship because she doesn't want to seem as if she had the biggest ego in the world The key word is MORE. and please be straight with me so we don't waste each other's time!" At this point, I didn't know what to do. Here are 8 things to do when she says she likes you, but is not ready to be in a relationship: 1) Take a Step Back: Stop the Chase. The reason it bothers me is the same as other men who talk about it in this thread, it's disrespectful. Shoot the shot. Watching someone from the distance is not bothering until that person realizes that they’ve been watched. You thought you had something real with her, and you do, in a way, but even though she likes you, she doesn’t want to be official with you. In person she seems interested and is almost never on her phone, she asks me lots of questions and remembers a lot of small details about me, conversations are pretty great and just like you we've been on 3 dates and slept over each other's places on the past 2. “He told me he likes me” should never overshadow the next step: taking care of your heart. Believe me: Right now she has other responsibilities and priorities in her life, like her family or her job – or both. you're just a side piece or she's just not that into you. My story: he told me I can date other guys. I’m cool wit my girl thinkin other dudes are attractive. It would be weird. She says the reason why, is if she does it now, then she will know she can be with me for the long haul, and won't have any further doubts However, she wants me to sit and wait for her. On one hand, that felt awesome, but on the other, I'd feel like a prick if I tried to start something while They’re all cool guys, all are men I’d be happy to go on a date with. Had it happen before. All have done is go on dates but no physical touch, no kissing, no promises just getting to know each other. Smiles alot says hi and sometimes he ignore me like he didn’t see me but when I act like I didn’t see him he poke me or say something, lately I send him msg in fb saying nice selfie. Just don't get upset if she dates other guys later. I told him my name and that it . I’ll never understand the losing a friend if it doesn’t work out. Learn the behaviors that indicate she may be interested in someone else. Shoukd I just continue to see what happens, I just feel like if she was really really into me she would easily say yes I can imagine being with you and want to eventually idk I’m trippin Why does she tell me about other guys hitting on her? Other It’s an immature way to try and make you jealous and make herself sound like she’s hot shit. What do you do? Here's what you should do: Stay calm: Don't let your emotions show. Now I am not so shy that I don't talk to people. 0 . Shes just sharing her experience , don't get weird /insecure about it lol. Girls say stuff like that to each other to be nice. Again, she can't see without her glasses very well. She and I have had good conversation in the past. She never told you that she didn't like you (whatever that maybe), she said that she wants to focus on school and not a relationship. So I (32m) went on two dates with a girl (25)who is about to live 4 hours away from me. Of course he's my friend and I will help him (although I like the girl too - its not his fault she chose him over me, I wouldn't jeopardize a male friendship over a girl) but it just makes me sad deep inside that girls never do this to me. I enjoy spending time with her and I feel like we get along well. From what you've just said I believe she really does like you! She is incredibly busy with school and other stuff so I understand her not being able to make much, Do guys really like girls with thick thighs? Text me or message me on Facebook and we can take a hike or walk with the dogs or something. Most people aren’t all that exciting. But I don’t want to pressure her to date other people if she doesn’t want to. TL;DR The girl who act seemed interested in me rejected me and now seems like she I asked her a few nights ago and I’ve never heard her stumble over her words so much. I asked her out on an official date and she told me she wasn’t ready to date and didn’t want to lose our friendship. She needs to date other guys so she knows in her mind that I'm the right one for her. She likes me back. She used me to pass the time. We were alone at her place, and for the first time in my life, a very pretty girl was telling me that she liked me. She says she recognizes we still have a deep connection but is enjoying the attention she's getting from other guys so she wants to date around before working on things. She has said flat out that she doesn't like me, but I think *hope* I am growing on her. She lives like 6hrs away. the guy actually likes her MORE. If you're constantly worrying about other guys, you're not focusing on being the best version of yourself. I just want to make it abundantly clear that I would be enthusiastically supportive if she did. There are many possibilities and in my opinion, if she wouldn't like talking to you, she just wouldn't answer. To my surprise she said yes. If she still says no, it's time to walk away. I know a lot of guys who genuinely believe a girl likes them and is confused to find out that she rejected him. Daisy and I have been seeing each other off and on for four months now and I’ve certainly noticed that she rarely initiates dates. like she won't interfier when one of the other guys is alone with a girl but does it to me or gets upset if I ignore her but again doesn't care about other guys & other crap like that. This might make you feel good on one hand. He never liked her from the beginning and I doubt he suddenly likes her Mine told me I should date a white girl a few months before she broke up with me. Guy 1 asks me out on a date, does that mean I need to put the other 2 guys on hold until i know how the date went? Hell, the date with guy 1 could go great, and I’d still want to go on the date with guys 2 and 3 because one date does not mean exclusivity. After that he seemed to be around me much. I mean like there's so many times she just straight up basically told me. It was super weird. 0 Reply. She has issues Rule of thumb I go by. So a few days had passed and still no word from her. I've been dating a girl for about 2 weeks. It's the chase that guys/girls love and makes you cherish the person more. If she’s turned down by you, she may be able to date other men. I’m not sure and it’s been really bothering me. You came a little late in her life. So the first month he had a business trip in Japan for the whole month so we face timed a lot. We're 38. He seemed like everything I was looking for and I left our first date feeling all the butterflies. Plenty of guys try to flirt or ask me out. The result is girls lose interest or just find someone else. My friend told me she spoke to her and its because of her ex. I'm not sure if she is just friends with that guy or what. . If she did tell you about another guy because she is attracted to you then it would be likely that she would show signs of attraction around you that she doesn’t with her other friends. But, I see her talking to another dude on facebook. If she likes to talk about other guys she is interested in, she is probably not interested in you as anything more than a friend. Save your energy for the dating process, not trying to decipher the morse code of "does she like 2. She is enjoying getting to know you and just wants to take it slow. I'd date someone like that Reply reply But if it’s been longer than 2 weeks she’s prob never going to come around because she found another guy who she is more interested in or other guys she’d prioritize. That to me is crazy that he’s even with her after disrespecting her like that infront of everyone. It's more than likely that she is just putting you on the back burner right now. She's never talked about other guys to me before, and I've known her for almost a year. I can see how going out with other girls would make me seem like I don't "need" her, but I know that would make me come off as an asshole to her, and the fact that I'm seeing other girls would probably make her upset, let alone the fact that she would We talked about the reasons why we liked each other and even about our future. Just in When a girl doesn’t show that she likes you much but gets angry at you at any slight provocation or without any tangible reason, she likes you. But you are probably right that she is talking to other guys Reply reply SmileAggravating9608 • Say "Hey, I'm really into you and would like to date, what do you think. She suddenly told me over text that she doesn't like me that way and that she never saw us as a date. I’m not normally the type who falls fast but I was crushing on him straight away. My ex told me after our 1’st date that she would have blocked me when I put my arm around her on my first date if she hadn’t felt as attracted to me. She plays games with me all the time. But I’m not sure what the hell she meant by that. (I was with two of my girl friends) . Remember, if they wanted to they despite her zombie traits. If she really cared and wanted to be with you she wouldn't talk to anyone else. That’s because you are dating someone who is only interested in getting attention (from other guys) and could care less about your comfort zone. the next she is always on me. Good luck. I’m kinda the same way, which is why online dating is so hard for me. So I met this girl, she's not long out of a 6-year relationship. She was surprised but let me kiss her briefly. What would your opinion? Ive no idea what shes after as she says she doesn’t like conflict. She will come up and make very small talk with me. I feel like we're stuck in that stage and moving forward is such a drag, it kind of bums me out sometimes. She broke the bad news to you, and you can’t help but feel devastated. Do not be this girl's little puppy that chases her while she makes up her mind. She keeps bringing up meeting one day and how we are like a couple and shit. Plus, she’s dating other guys and she’s telling him that he needs to be dating other girls, because she can also see that he’s getting pretty attached, which he has. Then tell her. so that doesn't really count. Naturally I act as if I think nothing of it, and I change the subject and we talk about different stuff for like half an hour, and then out of the blue she starts blabbering about other guys she's friends with and went out with to me. So you find it odd that when you hit her up on Wednesday to schedule your weekly Friday date she isn’t responding. We were going to be in a relationship. If she likes you, she will try and work her issues out and then pursue a relationship with you. I got an answer like this from a girl once. She never wants me to leave, we eat together, cuddle, laugh and all that amazing stuff. Have you noticed she’s been doing this more often lately? There are a few possibilities when it comes to what it means when a girl talks to other guys. I haven't said or done anything to upset her. Then I made a joke about something and she laughed at. It really drives me crazy. In her case, it meant exactly what she said: she's not looking for a relationship and i just happened to be the unlucky bastard who met her at the wrong time. She talks about the guys that she likes. and they always change I am a 28 year old female, and I have always been described as the nice, smart, but quiet girl by people who know me. But I have good news too! Guys tell them they are beautiful and bombard girls with compliments and date requests. Then it would be my fault. There are some women who ‘collect’ men which they refer to as friends but just like the attention and the ability to say that a lot of guys like them. And as soon as it became inconvenient. ) it's kind of hard I think she sees me as her 'Plan B', she wants to keep me interested and once she has exhausted all her other options, she will have me there just in case any of her 'Plan A's' don't work out. Identifying Changes: Frequency of If she’s talking to other guys, she doesn’t want a real relationship. This is because you may not be her type, you may have said something about your past relationships that scared her off, or you may have done nothing wrong at all. true. I don't know for you, but for me I like to take things to the end so I don't have to brood on them Yeah. If you’re not ok with her talking to other guys. In conclusion, the context in which a girl mentions other guys is important to consider when trying to understand her intentions and personality. She also actively talks about other guys, and tells me she thinks she'll be single forever and that she still needs to find the right person for her future. Hi mate I understand ,my one is exactly the same but different in some ways for instance l like her I met her in college she is studying in the same class but I am older by 3 years. Someone two of the guys ended up Some guys won't like it and some will. I'm not Signs your girlfriend likes another guy can leave you confused and heartbroken. I tend to think she likes me but because of our seperate lives (Different friends, different schools etc. It’s an annoying paradox. The different thing about this girl is that we've known each other for a few months. If she really likes you and wants to keep dating, then great. It would be so easy to just push me away and say no thanks. If that isn't enough for her, then maybe she doesn't deserve you. she not like other girls so I asked her out on the phone and she said I just go out of relationship and gods knows what he did to her but she wasn't happy about guys She Likes Me But Has a Boyfriend. We really hit it off, got super close, she says she really likes me, that I tick alot of boxes for her. Thus, most guys conclude the "sign" wasn't really a sign. Feels like a competition for the girl and it's kind of a crappy situation to be in. You can’t stop thinking about her. Im in my early 30s and my girlfriend is 24 and she’s worked at target for 2 years and we were talking about our dating history and she revealed that she only dates guys that have “their shit together” and I asked her what she means by that and she said basically she only dated wealthy men because she would never date a bum and I asked if she would date She's told me that the other guy feels threatened by me and was surprised seems like she's just enjoying the attention from you guys. She showers me in compliments telling me I’m so handsome and I look masculine and whatever, but I shrug it off cos sometimes her flirts and compliments sounds like she low-key knows She confessed to me that she didn't get to date other people or sleep with other people and she Wants to know how it feels like to date someone else and to sleep with someone else sense I'm the I figured a long distance relationship is better than having her date other guys because I know she's going to get emotionally attached These are all the possible reasons why a girl wants to take it slow even though she likes you: 1. I normally avoid girls like this. Have you ever felt like she was parading her dates in front of you? Does she seem more playful with guys when you’re around? If you’re sensing a pattern, it may be less about coincidence and more about deliberate patterns on her end. I was hanging out with a girl a few times. Embrace your worth and set the boundaries you need. We all have various people in our lives who She Flirts with You Often. It’s like she kept dating other guys because again, she just literally got right out of a long-term relationship, started seeing him and hooking up with him. We've been over the topic multiple times. I don't understand her. But she’s basically keeping you on call until she finds something better. I’ve been seeing this guy for 2 months. 101 votes, 57 comments. This was 1 week There’s a girl you really like. She only treats you like the “nice” friend all while she gives all her attention to ANOTHER GUY. She enjoys your company and how you act around her! There are loads of benefits to this sort of unofficial relationship. She just wants to have casual sex with you. and here, it's not like she always goes to them, these guys always come to her so its not like she can push them away just like that, and I know her way of thinking. I asked again and she said that she cant come. Yours If you wait like 5-8 dates and then sleep with someone and then find out they slept with someone else, I think it’s be This was the potential start to a relationship for me, not just a hookup. The last thing I ever want to do is make someone uncomfortable. txws zzu hali ukpx qher ssgm rthnh idakm pkdbj ixzhd